Episode 007: How to Handle Hijackals & Toxic People

featuring Rhoberta Shaler

Do you have a narcissist in your life? How do you cope with difficult people that seem to suck the energy from you? Dr. Rhoberta Shaler unlocks the secrets to dealing with those toxic people who drain your energy and ruin your day. She is on a mission to help people stop tolerating abuse. Dr. Shaler is a relationship expert with 16 books under her belt. She came up with the term Hijackals to describe this type of toxic person and offers strategies on how to deal with them. Learn how to spot a Hijackals. Find out how to help kids who have a Hijackals parent to develop emotional intelligence, meet their own emotional needs and choose healthy people to form relationships with so they can avoid repeating unhealthy family patterns.


Rhoberta’s Websites:

Website and Blog: www.ForRelationshipHelp.com

Radio/Podcasts: www.RelationshipHelpNetwork.com

Speaker Site: www.RelationshipHelpDoctor.com

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How to Spot a Hijackal

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Dr Rhoberta Shaler

Dr Rhoberta Shaler

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As a relationship consultant, mediator, speaker and author, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor, provides urgent and ongoing care for relationships in crisis. Her mission is to help people stop tolerating abuse. Even the United States Marines have sought her help. Dr. Shaler focuses on helping the partners, exes, and adult children of the relentlessly difficult people she calls “Hijackals®.” She offers strategies for dealing with the constant uncertainty and jaw-dropping behaviors of the difficult, toxic people she calls Hijackals®. Author of sixteen books including Escaping the Hijackal Trap and Stop! That’s Crazy-Making! How to Stop Playing the Passive-Aggressive Game. She is the host of three podcasts: Emotional Savvy: The Relationship Help Show, Save Your Sanity: Help for Handling Hijackals, and Focus on Forward: Fuel for a Fearless Future. Her YouTube channel, ForRelationshipHelp.com has reached over 200,000 views.

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